Title: The Amateur's Guide To Death and Dying:
Enhancing the End of Life
Synopsis: A new interactive workbook designed to help us
define and achieve a good death for ourselves.
Lessons In The Art of Dying...and Living
Thousands of people will receive a devastating medical
diagnosis this year. And for most, what follows is a nightmare of anger, shame,
loneliness and passivity. Instead of being encouraged to take a lead role in
orchestrating their finales, they are expected to wait patiently for the
curtain to fall.
The Amateur's Guide is on the cutting edge of death and
dying work. It provides an opportunity to break free from the painful silence
our culture imposes on death talk. Whether filling out a durable power of
attorney form, completing a death anxiety survey or personally designing a
unique end-of-life plan, you will be totally involved and engaged.
This unique seminar/support group format exposes you to a
myriad of life situations and moral dilemmas that arise as one faces his/her
mortality head on.
Learn from and with people just like you. Ten diverse
fictional characters provide essential role models for enhancing life near
death. Additionally, six presenters, experts in their field, offer timely
advice to help make the end of life less intimidating and more of a rich,
poignant transition.
This is about achieving a good and wise death in the context
of real dying, with all its unpredictability, disfigurement, pain, and sorrow.
This workbook is primarily for those currently facing their
mortality. But concerned family and friends, healing and helping professionals,
lawyers, clergy, teachers, students, and those grieving a death will all
benefit from joining in. Because, as we all know, none of us is getting out of
here alive.
October 24, 2012 (Seattle, WA). Let’s face it. Death is
unavoidable. None of us is getting out
of here alive. Each year, tens of thousands of us receive a devastating or even
a terminal prognosis. Yet, because the subject of death in our society is
taboo, few opportunities exist for us to prepare for this inevitability in a
purposeful life-affirming way. Instead of being encouraged to take a lead role
in orchestrating our finales, we are often lost in a nightmare of fear,
anxiety, and loneliness as we wait for the curtain to fall. All that is about
to change.
The Amateur's Guide To Death and Dying: Enhancing the End of
Life (www.theamateursguide.com) is a fascinating and useful new tool to help us
address the questions and emotions that arise as we face our mortality. It is designed primarily for sick, elder, and
dying people. However, concerned family
and friends, healing and helping professionals, lawyers, clergy, teachers,
students, and those grieving a death will all benefit from reading this book.
The topic of death and dying is experiencing a cultural
revival not seen since the groundbreaking work of Elizabeth Kübler-Ross in the
early 1970’s. End of life issues are
being explored in films and on TV as well as in every other media. Even the Supreme Court has addressed the
issue.
From the Author: Dear
friends and colleagues,
I am pleased to announce the publication of my new book The
Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying: Enhancing The End Of Life.
The Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying is specifically
designed for terminally ill, chronically ill, elder, and dying people from all
walks of life. But concerned family and friends, healing and helping
professionals, lawyers, clergy, teachers, students, and those grieving a death
will also benefit from reading the book.
The Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying is a workbook that
offers readers a unique group/seminar format. Readers participate in a virtual
on-the-page support group consisting of ten other participants. Together
members of the group help each other liberate themselves from the emotional,
cultural, and practical problems that accompany dying in our modern age.
The Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying helps readers dispel
the myth that they are incapable of taking charge during the final season of
life. Readers face the prospect of life's end within a framework of honesty, activity,
alliance, support, and humor. And most importantly readers learn these lessons
in the art of dying and living from the best possible teachers, other sick,
elder, and dying people.
The Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying engages readers with
a multitude of life situations and moral dilemmas that arise as they and their
group partners face their mortality head on.
The Amateur's Guide To Death And Dying offers readers a way
to share coping strategies, participate in meaningful dialogue, and take advantage
of professional information tailored to their specific needs. Topics include
spirituality, sexuality and intimacy, legal concerns, final stages, and
assisted dying. The book does not take an advocacy position on any of these
topics. It does, however, advocate for the holistic self-determination of sick,
elder, and dying people, which can only be achieved when they have adequate
information.
Facing your mortality with the kind of support The Amateur's
Guide To Death And Dying offers does not eliminate the pain and poignancy of
separation. Rather it involves confidently facing these things and living
through them to the end.
This innovative workbook on death and dying is now available
on Amazon and in bookstores. I welcome your thoughts, comments, and reviews.
All the best, Richard Richard Wagner, Ph.D.
richard@theamateursguide.com
Our website: theamateursguide.com/
Author Bio: He is psychotherapist/clinical sexologist in
private practice since 1981. Seattle, WA
He has been working with terminally ill, chronically ill,
elder and dying people in hospital, hospice, and home settings for over 30
years. He facilitates support groups for care-providers and clinical personnel,
and provides grief counseling for survivors both individually and in group
settings.
He founded Paradigm Programs Inc, an innovative nonprofit
organization with a mission to be an outreach and resource for terminally ill,
chronically ill, elder and dying people.
He was honored with the prestigious University of California
San Francisco Chancellor's Award for Public Service in 1999 for his work with
sick, elder and dying people.
He designs, develops, and produces long and short term
in-service training seminars and workshops for helping and healing
professionals. He often speaks in the public forum on policy issues related to
religion, human sexuality, aging, death and dying, surviving chronic illness,
and moral development.